Step Out of Hiding.Walk in Freedom.
You’ve tried to stop. You’ve prayed about it. You’ve promised yourself — a hundred times — that this ends now. And yet the hiding continues. This is the structured, confidential group that finally breaks the cycle, because isolation is exactly what keeps it alive.
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Confidential & judgment-free — get answers now
Enrollment is now open
Next series: September 10 – November 12
Thursdays · 6:30 – 8:00 PM (CST) Live on Zoom · join from anywhere in the U.S.
You Already Know Trying Harder Hasn’t Worked
Information isn’t the problem. Trying harder hasn’t worked.
Isolation is keeping the cycle alive.
Sin grows in secrecy — but healing happens in the light.
“Confess your sins to one another… that you may be healed.”
Led by Amy Deace — Someone Who Knows This Territory
Amy holds two master’s degrees — Biblical Counseling and Clinical Mental Health — with specialized training in sexual addiction recovery. She understands both the science of the struggle and the grace of the Gospel.
You’re not getting a generic program. You’re getting real clinical insight joined to biblical truth — a grounded, proven path to lasting change, guided by someone who has walked men through it.
M.A. Biblical Counseling· M.A. Clinical Mental Health
“Can I really open up to a woman about this?”
That’s a fair question — and Amy has heard it for fifteen years. Here’s what those men found out: she’s not shocked. She’s not uncomfortable. And not one of them ever walked away wishing they’d gone somewhere else.
In fifteen years of walking with men through this, nothing you could say would surprise her. Whatever you’re carrying — whatever you’re afraid to say out loud — she’s heard it. And she’s still in the room.
This Isn’t Just About Stopping a Behavior
It’s about becoming the husband your wife married — or the one she always deserved. Many men come here because their marriage is on the line: an ultimatum, broken trust, a distance they don’t know how to close. The healing work you do here ripples into your marriage in ways you can’t predict right now — but you will feel them.
If you’re a wife who found this page — maybe searching on behalf of your husband, maybe just hoping he finds it — you’re not invisible here either. Part of this work is helping him understand what this has cost you. Your healing matters too.
Two Distinct Paths to Freedom
Whether you need the brotherhood of a men’s group or the discretion of one-on-one pastoral care, there’s a path built for where you are right now.
For Men · Adults
Men’s Group Coaching
A small, confidential brotherhood of men doing the work together — breaking the shame cycle, building boundaries, and walking into freedom under truth.
For Pastors & Leaders
Confidential Pastoral Care
A discreet, one-on-one space for pastors and ministry leaders — no groups, no public exposure. Honest, structured help toward integrity, with total confidentiality.
Not sure which is the right fit? Reach out confidentially and we’ll help you find your next step.
Is This Right for You?
This is for the man who feels the weight of a divided life and is tired of cycling through failure, shame, and isolation — and who is ready to pursue real freedom, honestly, in a confidential group. If that’s you, here’s exactly what to expect.
- A small, confidential group of men committed to real change — not a casual men’s group
- A guided, step-by-step process rooted in Scripture and practical application
- Weekly work: understanding your pattern, breaking the shame cycle, building boundaries
- A brotherhood where you trade secrecy for honest, ongoing accountability
- Coaching focused on ownership and action — this is not therapy, and it is not passive
- Transformation of the inner life — no hiding behind spiritual language
Men's GroupBrotherhood. Honesty. Freedom.
A confidential group of men committed to doing the work together — telling the truth, taking ownership, challenging one another, and walking toward freedom. This is not surface-level connection or performance.
- See your pattern clearly and identify what’s actually driving it
- Break the cycle of shame, hiding, and isolation
- Build clear, enforceable boundaries that hold under pressure
- Live as the same man in private that you are in public
- Move from hidden guilt to peace with God
Awareness → Structure → Freedom
Over ten weeks, the process moves you step by step — from seeing the pattern clearly, to building boundaries that hold, to living free. You won’t have to guess what to do.
Awareness
See your pattern clearly and understand what’s actually driving it — replacing shame and guesswork with honest insight.
Structure
Build real, enforceable boundaries, accountability, and rhythms that hold under pressure — grounded in Scripture.
Freedom
Live as the same man in private that you are in public — walking in lasting freedom and peace with God.
Complete Confidentiality
Honesty is only possible where it’s safe. What is shared here stays protected. Whether in a small group of men or a private one-on-one setting, your story is handled with discretion, wisdom, and respect — always.
A Confidential Space — Without Risking Exposure
Two in three U.S. pastors (67%) report having struggled with pornography at some point in their lives — and almost one in five (18%) say it is a current struggle.
If you’re a pastor or ministry leader carrying a divided private life, you are far from alone — and this is a place to be honest, discreetly. We offer one-on-one, confidential coaching designed specifically for leaders: no groups, no public exposure.
- Private, one-on-one coaching — no groups, no public exposure
- A confidential space where honesty is protected
- Structured work around patterns, boundaries, and integrity
- A focus on real change — not image management
Common Questions
“In my years walking with men through this, the ones who finally broke free had one thing in common — they stopped trying to do it alone.”
One Honest Question Before You Enroll
Are you ready to be done — not just ready to appease someone, not just ready to try again, but actually done? If the answer is yes — even if it’s a scared yes — this is the right next step.
Enroll in the September 10 Series
A confidential, faith-rooted path forward begins September 10. The series meets live over Zoom, so you can join from anywhere in the country. Choose the enrollment option that works best for you — both reserve your place in the next 10-week cohort.
Confidential Live on Zoom Nationwide 10 Weeks Faith-Rooted Clinically Informed
By the end of ten weeks
You’ll understand what’s actually driving the pattern. You’ll have real accountability — not just good intentions. And you’ll be living the same life in private that you live in public.
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Choose the Payment PlanHave a question before you enroll? Reach out confidentially or email Amy directly.